Radlett Adult Parties

Radlett is the UK's best established and popular swinging house party venue. Perfect for newbies and experienced swingers alike. Read the site then call us on 07986 288580 with any unanswered questions.


LATEST NEWS – Radlett Parties present – Saturday 30th Sept. 2017 BWFC night Theme “A touch of gold” wear something gold on the night.


Friday 27th October 2017 Couples/singles,

Saturday 28th October 2017 – Couples/single ladies only. 9.30 pm until late..Theme “Rocky Horror night!”.

Situated in a picturesque Hertfordshire village just inside the M25 we are one of the original London Adult Parties. We try to keep the format simple and fun. You don’t need to join a club, nor pay membership fee. We do however, reserve the right to discourage non-genuine people and seek to foster good relationships with all those we meet. Swinging is not for everyone, but there is no harm in trying something different and exciting! We do appreciate good facial photographs, and interesting profiles…..

Whilst the parties and events are an enormous part of our fun-packed entertaining social life; not run as a business, sometimes contributing to our favourite charities and good causes ie. Medicine San Frontier’s, Help for Heroes etc. we do look for a contribution for pool maintenance and damage to our home, The costs can sometimes vary according to the event. While revellers defray the costs of parties we can throw more of them. Weekend Parties start from 21:30 on the Friday night and stops when the last person leaves – sometimes as late as Sunday lunchtime…. There are local hotels for those who wish to stay and enjoy the weekend, but we strongly discourage drinking and driving and assists wherever possible to ease the burden on our local police and community. There is usually apres-party gossip the following morning. To assist those who feel torn between eating out or frolicking, we ease the burden by feeding you to a fair standard.

The facilities include a 8-bedroomed country house set in 3 acres of private secluded gated acres for evening revelry, 16 tree orchard with wild country meadow, tennis court for parking up to 100 cars. a 16 metre long covered telescopic heated swimming pool, sauna, outdoor heated Jacuzzi, 10 metre dance room with dance pole and hot buffet table, sauna, hot tub, We have also recently renovated our once “water-filled muddy field” for easy parking of up to another 50 cars. It has been a long time since we last called out the AA to come and rescue a “damsel in distress”.. Revellers have been known to pinch themselves for a reality check while sipping Pimms under the grapevine gazebo gazing out over the empty valley behind us. Usually 4 double bedrooms are made available for associative therapy and include a very large 3-double bedded dark room, a chilling out room, use of our en-suite bedroom with cinema screening videos, a walk in shower for those revellers who get hot! and a very private personal play room….for those who wish to enjoy it!

You should bring 50% more drink than you would normally take to a party – this much fun really is thirsty work. The local police know of the format and have assured us that they have no concerns in their professional capacity. Some years back a pestrian flagged down a police car to complain of cars parked on the pavement. This is technically an offence which the police normally ‘turned a blind eye to’, but must now ‘do their job’, so park in the field behind the house next to the tennis court where there is space for 100 cars.

Attendance profile drifts with time, but the average age seems currently to be around 35. There is no restriction on upper age or physique, but it has been many months since we saw any one who had lost pride in their appearance. The dress code is usually aimed at “come dressed to impress!” Smart attire for guys, no jeans, tee-shirts, trainers or baseball hats…for women sexy lingerie, cocktail dresses, all encouraged…Theme nights can vary but not everyone needs to adhere to a theme night dress code..as long as they appreciate those who have made the effort to do so…and come with a smile and a sense of humour!

In spite of Janet giving enormous effort to put first timers at ease, the only negative feedback we had over many years wasrom a couple who left ‘confused and disappointed’ becOause no one had engaged them. They asked if we could place a manual of engagement on the wall. Could revellers please take a modicum of responsibility for their own interactions? A safe ice-breaker is to ask a couple nearby what their preferred approach protocol is, or a simply “Hi” would help. The concept of “speed-dating” at parties has proved an endless source of fun and laughter and this always creates a wonderful light-hearted atmosphere. The documentaries, now free to watch on Netflix, “The Real Wife Swop” and Channel 4 “Jon Richardson grows up” have both been a pleasurable experience for us to participate in and to show the enormous amount of pleasure that this lifestyle can bring to others. Janet and I thank you for all your wonderful comments and support in what we set out to achieve years ago when “Swinging” was not really accepted, although the Swinging 60’s and 70’s were around long before many of us were born….However, this has resulted in not only putting our village on the map around the world and endless debates in social circles and dinner parties as well as down in the pubs, we have been able to encourage many others to join in the fun! Perhaps it’s time to do another documentary? Or a book! Watch this space….

30 comments on “RADLETT PARTIES

  1. ryback banks
    February 27, 2014

    Hi I came to one of your party’s and I had a good time I will like to come again so if you can please email me to let me know when the next one will be thank you very much

  2. Andi
    August 15, 2014

    I was made most welcome and was put at my ease immediately. It was impossible not to have a good time. Excellent value for money – after all, where else could an older single woman go out on her own and be made to feel a million dollars?! X

  3. johnhawkins8@@hotmail.co.uk
    August 25, 2014

    hi janet its john and dean.th.anks for putting cecillias mind at ease.herself and judy loved it.they intend to bring friends next time. x

  4. Naughty_Ni
    October 3, 2014

    Sir Richard: The man with the balls.. Great respect.. Hats off..
    Lovely Janet: Super awesome, gorgeous lady with psychic abilities…

    Went for first time as a single male… Super duper time..
    Greatly welcomed, loved and appreciated..
    While my mate was a non stop horse on the bed…I couldn’t stop flirting with the ladies…one after another..xoxo

    Great ambience.. Highly recommended..
    I think UK gov should fund this party.. Its a great social service :-p

    well done guys..

  5. Debbie
    October 11, 2014

    Hey Janet and Richard been so long since I seen the pair of you I really miss coming to your party’s and spending the weekend with you guys hope to be able to make it up to see you guys soon it’s been to long… Debs xxx

  6. lucy and andy
    March 1, 2015

    Fantastic nite thank u janet and richard.

  7. opps ive done it again
    April 25, 2015

    Wow what can we say, we had our 1st visit on friday 24th april 2015 , janet is a gorgous lady, and richard great moves on the dance floor, we loved every minute of it and will certainly be back , we would love to stay all weekend in the future , it was well worth the visit and your house is amazing and loved the spread of food you put on see you again soon xx
    Tara and ben
    (Opps ive done it again )

  8. adam
    July 9, 2015

    Hi guys, had a great time at the party! Would defiatly recomened you to my friends. Great host and saucy guests ;).

    Yours truly

  9. Paul & Tricia
    December 15, 2015

    Not yet been to your establishment although we know at least 3 couples who have (and love it). We like what we read on the description of the place and despite the potential 67 mile journey, we hope to visit before too long

  10. Sarah Barnard
    July 11, 2017

    Hello there. I am a single lady and would like some information on what I need to do to attend one of your parties please? Sarah x

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hello Sarah. Thanks for the message. The most enervating way to qualify is to make time midweek to audition in the hot tub over a bottle of wine. lol. Failing that, just turn up on October 27th and/or 28th. Single guys allowed on 27th. Not on 28th. Theme (obviously) Halloween. What could you do to terrify me?


  11. M M
    July 16, 2017

    When, single allowed, too much reading

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      what do you mean too much reading?

  12. Andrew Barnard
    July 25, 2017

    Hi guys, I am not sure if you check these mails but have been on your mailing list for a while. My name is Andrew, a young looking 51 yrs so people tell me. I would love to be able to attend one of your parties. I am a semi retired Emergency Nurse Practitioner- which may be of some use. My experience of swinging has been a couple of arranged 4 somes which were fun. I have a ‘thing ‘ for black women and a love and respect for women in general. I took your test and passed! My expectations are realistic I believe and would just like to see if I fitted in. Let me know your thoughts.

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Andy. See you on 27th from 9:30?

  13. Colinprotheroe
    July 28, 2017

    Hi Janet and Richard my partner and I have heard about
    You’re parties all good and we are interested although we are in our fifties and a little bit overweight but we very broad mind also first timers but very respectful. Colin

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Colin. You’ve come to the right place for first timers. This is said to be the least judgemental venue with complete racial harmony and free of ageism. If that describes you both then come on down and we will introduce you to amazing people.

  14. Dawn
    August 8, 2017

    I would like to attend 1 of your parties with my partner. We have never been to 1 before. We are excited and looking forward to joining in

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Dawn. Yes indeed – Halloween here is weekend of 27/28 October. We very much look forward to seeing you both.

  15. Christie
    August 25, 2017

    Hi my husband and I are coming to London from Vancouver Canada. We are wondering if you will be holding an event on Saturday October 28th. My husband David is 49 and I’m 40. We are both in good shape, attractive, healthy and are new to this. We have watched your documentary you’re in in Netflix.

    Looking forward to hearing back from you.
    Christie and David Johnson

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Christie. Yes indeed – Halloween here is weekend of 27/28 October. We very much look forward to seeing you both.


  16. Phil &Ann jeffries
    September 2, 2017

    Hi there guys is the cheeky monkeys from Brighton again is there anything going on tonight at your lovely house we have sent you a couple of emails and not heard from you can you tell us whether we left a small blue zip up bag with you last Saturday we did clear up for you as you were not up yet but we could not clean up in the back garden because everything was locked up We just hope it helped a little

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Phil. We will hopefully see you both the weekend of 27/28 October for Halloween


  17. Vivienne Fairbrass
    September 7, 2017


    When was your newbie night?

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      long time since we had a dedicated newbie night. Better to mix newbies with experienced couples. When can you next join us?


  18. Rick
    October 5, 2017

    Hi Janet,

    We are an outgoing thirty something couple, and are keen to attend our first swingers event. Although your webpage is helpful and informative, we would very much appreciate a quick chat before attending. Please, if possible, could you drop as a line, and we can have a chat.

    R and K

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Rick. You’ve come to the right place for first timers. This is said to be the least judgemental venue with complete racial harmony and free of ageism. If that describes you both then come on down and we will introduce you to amazing people.


  19. T
    October 14, 2017

    Do I need to register with my partner if we want to come as first timers?
    Also how much is entry fee?
    Super excited at the thought….

    • radlettpartiesuk
      October 18, 2017

      Hi Tanya. Thanks for the message. The suggested contribution for a couple is £30 on Friday nights, £50 on Saturday nights (no single guys). How soon might we see you both? Halloween weekend we hope.


  20. Simon
    October 18, 2017

    I’d like to come to a party how do I get an invite x

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